1. It improves self-esteem.
“It has brought a new level of happiness for me personally,
and has helped my self-esteem knowing that after two kids,
my husband still thinks I’m sexy.” – married 6 years
2. It’s a guaranteed mood booster.
“He sings in the shower after morning sex, nearly every time.
This is all the proof I need that sex is a mood enhancer for
him. And I’d like to think that good mood carries over into
other parts of his day. I love knowing that I’m the reason he’s
smiling at work.” married 12 yrs.
3. If you use it, you won’t lose it.
“If sex is such a large part of your routine and a big priority, it
never becomes low priority or gets weird or awkward. And you
won’t have to worry about how to resume or reconnect. Just
don’t ever stop doing it!”
4. You might end up arguing less.
“We know when something is off with each other. And most
importantly, we don’t fight, argue or bicker! We sit down and
talk things out. Staying connected like that helps us
communicate better outside of the bedroom.”
5. It forces you to get creative.
“Being intimate so often, and sharing what each person needs
and wants allows the freedom of creativity. There is no
position or situation either of us has ever denied the other.
This makes us each feel more and more comfortable to share
[fantasies] or point out a hot girl or guy, and say what we’d
like to do with them in bed.”
6. It’s easier to schedule than a formal date night.
“I think it’s the easiest way to have some romance since we really don’t do date nights or vacations alone. Plus, I know my husband
enjoys it.”
7. One word: Orgasms.
“The benefit for me is that it feels simply amazing. I also love
to see how my husband gets lost in the moment. Being able to
see that level of complete satisfaction on his face is so
satisfying to me.”
8. It gets you out of your head for a little while.
“Sex for me, and now for my husband since we’ve gotten
together, is a complete escape from reality. We are both very
much into role-playing and it’s such a wonderful feeling to
not have to be me for a while, to completely shut off from our
crappy day-to-day existence and strictly be about ourselves
and our enjoyment.”
9. It builds trust.
“New positions and sexual frontiers take a lot of trust in your
partner to not screw it up, and that kind of trust is best earned
after several years of personal and joint bodily exploration
10. It’s a way to connect without speaking.
“Sex is a vital part of marriage. It brings couples together in a
way that other things don’t. What I mean is that it promotes
togetherness, snuggling and cuddling, and it’s a way to
connect without words.”
11. It provides some much-needed couple time.
“My husband and I have sex every night because it’s a moment in the day that is just about the two of us. We are parents to a toddler, so when we lay him down for bed each night, we can then spend
the rest of the night expressing how we feel about each other
physically. Having sex allows us to be passionate, to show
affection and we enjoy pleasing each other.”
12. It leads to more PDA outside of the bedroom.
“We’re very physically expressive with one another, even
when we’re not having sex. We hold hands a lot, he slaps my
butt when I’m working in the kitchen, I nuzzle his neck when
he’s working on research papers at the desk.”
13. It can be a workout if you do it right.
“When you have four kids and no time, sex is the best
exercise.”
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