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Cheating can save a marriage.

Financial consultant Lee has a number of partners on the go and claims cheating can save a marriage We are part of the Trust Project Lee says she feels no guilt over her affairs with married men. A wealthy widow who has had illicit affairs with over 100 married men says she's the "perfect solution" for unhappy husbands. Financial consultant Lee has a number of partners on the go and insists cheating can save a marriage. The 47-year-old said half of the wives of the men she dates are aware of their affairs, but turn a blind eye because they have gone off sex and want their husbands to be happy. The former model, from Chelsea, west London, feels no guilt over her relationships and claims that she is helping husbands and wives to stay together. She said many of the couples would split up if the men didn't have her as an outlet, and the heartache of divorce would be far worse for their families. Lee says she has had more than 100 affairs in just ten years (  "I know a lot of people will condemn what I do but I really don't have any regrets because I honestly believe that I help to keep a lot of couples together. So many marriages in the UK are in crisis, particular couples in middle age with children. "They have been together for ten or 15 years and they have very busy and stressful lives combining careers with the care of their kids. "For many women in particular sex just shuts down and disappears from their weekly routine. "That is fine for the women who find fulfilment through their friends and their children. "But that leaves a lot of men craving sex and excitement,  they don't want to leave their wives but they do want a release from all that pent up frustration. "I am the perfect solution for them. We can go out and have fun but they know with absolute certainty that I am not going to turn up on their doorstep and rat on them to their wives or demand that they divorce. "I just want to have some fun and some great sex - which is all the men want from me, too. "Sleeping with someone new can be good for a marriage. It takes the pressure off many wives whose libidos have died and keeps the man happy. "Clearly the reverse can be true, too, when the man goes off sex. Lots of women are having affair while their husbands stay faithful."

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